《How to American: An Immigrant's Guide to Disappointing Your Parents》书籍摘要

• 第一章: The Arrival

  • 1.1 First Impressions

    • **Cultural Shock**: Jimmy O. Yang describes his initial culture shock upon arriving in the United States.

    • **Language Barrier**: His struggles with understanding and speaking English effectively.

  • 1.2 Adjusting to American Culture

    • **Food and Diet**: Adapting to a new diet, including the abundance of fast food.

    • **Sports**: Developing an interest in American sports and their cultural impact.

• 第二章: The Education System

  • 2.1 Public School Experience

    • **Diversity**: Experiencing diversity in the classroom for the first time.

    • **Academic Challenges**: Navigating a new educational system and academic expectations.

  • 2.2 College Life

    • **Independence**: Gaining independence and learning self-discipline.

    • **Cultural Exploration**: Further exploring American culture through clubs and organizations.

• 第三章: The Job Hunt

  • 3.1 Entry-Level Jobs

    • **First Job**: Securing an entry-level job and understanding the work ethic expected.

    • **Stereotypes**: Encountering stereotypes as an Asian immigrant in the workplace.

  • 3.2 Career Advancement

    • **Networking**: Building professional relationships and networks for career growth.

    • **Continuous Learning**: Embracing opportunities for professional development.

• 第四章: Romance and Relationships

  • 4.1 Dating in America

    • **Cultural Differences**: Understanding different dating etiquette and expectations.

    • **Communication**: Improving communication skills to build meaningful relationships.

  • 4.2 Marriage and Family

    • **Intercultural Marriage**: Considering the challenges and rewards of an intercultural relationship.

    • **Parental Expectations**: Navigating parental expectations regarding marriage and family.

• 第五章: Disappointing Your Parents

  • 5.1 Parental Concerns

    • **Safety and Security**: Addressing parents' worries about safety and financial security.

    • **Success in America**: Defining success on one's own terms and dealing with parental pressure.

  • 5.2 Reconciliation

    • **Understanding**: Developing a deeper understanding of parents' perspectives.

    • **Finding Common Ground**: Establishing common ground and maintaining a respectful relationship despite differences.