[日]小林美希 / 春潮 | 中信出版集团 / 2022年03月01日
《有恨意但不离婚的妻子们》一书由日本作者小林美希撰写,深入探讨了当代婚姻中隐藏的痛点和复杂情感。书中,作者通过实例和数据揭示了日本社会中普遍存在的丈夫出轨问题,以及妻子们在面对这一困境时所持有的复杂情绪——恨意与不舍、愤怒与无奈。尤为引人注目的是,书中提及的真实案例,如一位70岁妻子在丈夫坦白多年出轨后将其殴打致死,反映了极端情况下妻子的激烈反应。同时,网络搜索中“丈夫”与“去死”的关联,也折射出部分妻子对丈夫的深重失望与恨意。这本书不仅是对婚姻现实问题的揭露,更是对人性、信任和情感复杂性的深刻剖析。
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第一章:不离婚的理由
1.1 社会压力与期待
**关键点**:
Japanese society's strong expectations for marital stability
Social stigma associated with divorce
1.2 经济因素
**关键点**:
Financial ties and responsibilities towards family
Lack of financial independence
1.3 孩子的幸福
**关键点**:
Mothers' concerns about the impact of divorce on children
Desire to provide a "normal" family environment
第二章:恨意的根源
2.1 婚姻中的失望与不满
**关键点**:
Unmet expectations from the marriage
Disappointments with husbands' behaviors and attitudes
2.2 情感疏离与孤独
**关键点**:
Emotional distance in the relationship
Feelings of isolation and loneliness
2.3 背叛与欺骗
**关键点**:
Experiencing infidelity or deception
Struggling with trust issues
第三章:妻子们的内心世界
3.1 忍耐与牺牲
**关键点**:
The culture of silent suffering in Japanese society
The belief that sacrifice is necessary for family harmony
3.2 自我价值的挣扎
**关键点**:
Questioning self-worth due to marital dissatisfaction
Striving to find identity and purpose outside of marriage
3.3 对未来的迷茫
**关键点**:
Uncertainty about the future without the current marriage
Fears of being alone or unable to start over
第四章:寻找解脱之路
4.1 自我认知与成长
**关键点**:
Recognizing personal needs and values
Overcoming emotional obstacles through self-reflection and support
4.2 法律与心理援助
**关键点**:
Seeking legal advice and counseling
Finding empowerment through knowledge and professional support
4.3 勇敢面对现实
**关键点**:
Confronting reality and making tough decisions
Building a new life, whether staying married or choosing divorce