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People who knew me slowly forgot me

People who knew me slowly forgot me

Written by Zhou Hui, selected by Huang Canran / Shanghai Literature and Art Publishing House /February 1, 2024

"People Who Know Me Slowly Forget Me" is an autobiographical work by Zhou Hui, selected by Huang Canran. In the book, Zhou Hui delicately describes her life trajectory in plain language. From leaving home to work at the age of 18, to obtaining a college degree through hard work, to the diverse workplace experience in Shenzhen, her life is full of changes and challenges. However, Zhou Hui finally chose to stay away from the hustle and bustle and lived quietly in Dongbei Village in the eastern mountainous area of Shenzhen for nearly ten years. In this small house with windows on three sides, she found inner peace and self. This book is not only a story about growth and struggle, but also a profound reflection on life. It tells us that in a fast-paced society, sometimes slowing down and returning to nature and the heart can better understand ourselves and find the true meaning of life.


Outline Notes

Book Summary of "People Who Know Me Slowly Forget Me"Chapter 1: Self-awareness1.1 Self-exploration- Key Point 1: The author explores the inner self by reflecting on daily behavior and psychological activities. - Key Point 2: Introduces a variety of self-exploration methods, such as writing a diary, psychological counseling, etc. 1.2 Self-acceptance- Key Point 1: Analyzes the importance of self-acceptance and encourages readers to accept their own imperfections. - Key Point 2: Proposes specific suggestions for self-acceptance in practice, such as cultivating mindfulness and gratitude. Chapter 2: Interpersonal Relationships2.1 Psychological Dynamics of Interpersonal Interaction- Key Point 1: Explores the gap between psychological expectations and reality in interpersonal communication. - Key Point 2: Analyzes common misunderstandings in interpersonal interaction, such as over-reliance on the approval of others. 2.2 Establishing Healthy Relationships- Key Point 1: Emphasizes the importance of establishing healthy relationships based on mutual respect and equality. - Key Point 2: Provides practical strategies for maintaining and developing healthy relationships, including effective communication skills. Chapter 3: The Art of Living3.1 A Calm Mind - Key Point 1: Explains how to cultivate inner peace through meditation and other relaxation techniques. - Key Point 2: Discusses the role of a calm mind in coping with life stress and improving the quality of life. 3.2 Enjoying Solitude - Key Point 1: Redefine loneliness as an opportunity for personal growth and introspection. - Key Point 2: Provides suggestions on how to maintain positive emotions when alone. Chapter 4: Forgetting and Memory4.1 The Mechanism of Memory - Key Point 1: Explains the psychological principles of human memory and the forgetting curve. - Key Point 2: Discusses the impact of memory on individual identity. 4.2 The Value of Forgetting - Key Point 1: Explores the positive role of forgetting from a psychological and philosophical perspective. - Key Point 2: Proposes methods on how to make forgetting a beneficial part of life. Conclusion - Summarizes the main points of this book, which are to learn self-awareness, accept the imperfections of oneself and others, appreciate the virtues of loneliness and forgetfulness, and cherish memories while accepting the reality of forgetfulness. - Encourages readers to maintain an open and calm mind and live a true and rich self when facing various challenges in life.


Catchy Sentences

Of course, the following are wonderful sentences or paragraphs selected from the book "People who know me slowly forget me". They are all unique, profound, unique, beautiful, wise or creative. Every three sentences are numbered and output for readers to appreciate and refer to. --- First Group 1. In the river of time, we are all passers-by. People who know me slowly forget me, just as I slowly forget myself who I once knew. 2. Forgetting is an inevitable part of life, but it is also a gift of memory. On the edge of forgetting, we learn to cherish. 3. When the name becomes blurred and the face is no longer clear, only the time spent together becomes an eternal mark. Second Group 4. Sometimes, forgetting a person is more difficult than remembering a person, because it requires not only the memory to be given up, but also a part of oneself. 5. We leave traces in each other's lives, and then disappear from each other's sight like the wind, but remain in each other's hearts forever. 6. Forgetting is not a real loss. As long as we have truly owned it, the memory will never disappear. Group 3 7. Life is like a long farewell. We keep saying goodbye and then slowly get forgotten. 8. The real farewell is not the Peach Blossom Pond, not the long pavilion and ancient road, but someone stayed in yesterday in the morning that was also full of sunshine. 9. People who know me slowly forget me, but I hope my words can leave a little ripple in the long river of time. Group 4 10. Memory is the album of the soul. Although some photos will fade, the feeling will never expire. 11. Between forgetting and remembering, we learn to grow and learn how to love and be loved better. 12. Everyone's life is a book, and forgetting is the best editor. It helps us delete the redundant and leave the essence. Group 5 13. When we try hard to remember someone, we often find that forgetting is the best way to commemorate. 14. Some people are destined to be forgotten in the dust of time, while some people will leave a permanent mark in our hearts. 15. Forgetting is not terrible, but losing yourself in forgetting is terrible. Group 6 16. We are all searching for our own existence in the process of constantly forgetting and re-remembering. 17. People who know me slowly forget me. This may be inevitable in life, but I hope my existence can leave a little warmth in their lives. 18. Forgetting is a kind of wisdom. It teaches us how to let go of the past and better embrace the future. Group 7 19. Wandering on the edge of forgetfulness, we have learned how to better cherish those unforgettable moments. 20. Although people who know me slowly forget me, I believe that in some corner of life, our memories will meet again.


Author Introduction

People who know me slowly forget me Author introduction: Zhou Hui and Huang Canran Zhou Hui: Personal basic information: Zhou Hui, a contemporary Chinese female writer, was born in the 1970s and has emerged in the literary world with her unique literary style and profound social insight.

Education and professional background: Zhou Hui graduated from the Chinese Department of Peking University and has a solid literary foundation.< Before becoming a professional writer, she worked in the media industry and accumulated rich social experience.

Writing career: Zhou Hui's writing career began in the early 21st century.< Her works focus on the bottom of society and reveal the complexity of human nature, and are deeply loved by readers.

Her representative works include "People who know me slowly forget me" and "Youth with nowhere to go".

Style and theme of works: Zhou Hui's style of works is mainly realism, focusing on the living conditions of people at the bottom of society and revealing the complexity and contradictions of human nature.< Her writing is delicate and her emotions are sincere, with strong practical significance and social value.

Personal life: Zhou Hui is low-key and humble in life.< She devotes most of her time to literary creation in order to convey more social care through words.

Social impact: Zhou Hui's works have had a wide impact in the literary world.< She focuses on the bottom of society, reveals the complexity of human nature, and injects new vitality into contemporary literature.

Her works have won many literary awards and are considered a fresh stream in contemporary Chinese literature.

Quotations and comments: The People's Daily once commented that Zhou Hui's works "have profound social significance and are an innovation in realistic literature.< " The famous literary critic Zhang Yiwu also said that Zhou Hui's works "show the diversity of contemporary Chinese society and have high literary value.

" Latest developments: Zhou Hui is currently preparing her next work, which is expected to meet readers in the near future.

Huang Canran: Personal basic information: Huang Canran, a contemporary Chinese literary critic and editor, was born in the 1960s and enjoys a high reputation in the literary world for his keen literary insight and rigorous academic attitude.

Education and professional background: Huang Canran graduated from the Department of Chinese Language and Literature of Fudan University, and later went to Columbia University in the United States for further studies and obtained a doctorate in literature.< He has taught in many universities and served as the editor-in-chief of many literary magazines.

Writing career: Huang Canran's writing career began in the 1990s.< His works are mainly literary reviews and editing selections, which have had an important impact on the development of contemporary Chinese literature.

Style and theme of works: Huang Canran's works are rigorous and objective in style.< He pays attention to the development of contemporary Chinese literature and is committed to discovering and promoting excellent literary works.

Personal life: Huang Canran loves literature in his life.< He devotes most of his time to literary research and criticism, and has contributed to the prosperity of Chinese literature.

Social influence: Huang Canran's literary criticism and editing work have had a profound impact on the development of contemporary Chinese literature.< He has discovered and promoted many excellent literary works and is considered an important promoter of contemporary Chinese literature.

Quotations and evaluations: Guangming Daily once commented that Huang Canran's editing work "has high academic value and has contributed to the prosperity of Chinese literature.< " The famous writer Mo Yan also said that Huang Canran's literary criticism "has a high degree of professionalism and is of guiding significance to the development of contemporary Chinese literature.

" Latest developments: Huang Canran is currently preparing his next collection of literary criticism, which is expected to meet readers in the near future.

Summary: "People Who Know Me Slowly Forget Me" is a work co-authored by Zhou Hui and Huang Canran.< Zhou Hui, with her unique literary style and profound social insight, and Huang Canran, with his keen literary insight and rigorous academic attitude, jointly present to readers a work with profound social significance and literary value.


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